At some point in the book, why doesn't Aliya want to be the grown-up girl she always want to be anymore?

One of Mr. Bello's friend referred to in the book is

Who is the protagonist in the book sweet sixteen?

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Okibe was rusticated for his [derogatory] remark about the principal

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Some men will continue to cause offences until they are given [a taste of their own medicine]